I just loveeeeeeeeeee this post super a looooot , cause it made sense (:
hahaha , second time im posting this at my blog ,
but its just from a guy's blog , i really dunno who he is . so yeah .
Let's talk about 'Love'.
When I look at young loving couple, I felt the miss of having a special one in life. Well, who doesn't right? But what does love really means? Only the happy moments you enjoyed feeling it? Or also the bitterness of the argument that makes you feel insecure? The lovely heartfelt words you expressed? Or is it only about love love love? Is there any more than that?
I like the above paragraph alooot (:
For me, if I were to love again, I would love to feel not only the love but also the closeness of having a friend who will listen and cry with me. All of us wants that. But at times, some of us actually left that out. What we afraid of is losing that one person, and what we could think of is to make the person happy and always happy. But does only happiness can make one closer to you?
I think , yes , happiness (:
If for me, happiness just won't make one closer, but it'll just leave a good moments to smile on. true ! What makes me feel the closeness is when you talk to me about your sorrows, your stress, your happy moments with friends, your silly moments and basically your ups and downs in life. The way you being yourself, that is what really matters. being yourself is the best , because that's who you really are and people should fall in love with that side of you , not the oh-so-nice side and end up quarrelling always cause you dont know the other side of the person which you may not like.
Why is this important?
So that there won't be any hesitation. Believe me, there are people who out there afraid to be themselves, cos they just wanna impress you and not making a fool of themselves so that you won't run away. ya of course there are people like that . and true love dont start like that , right ? rule no 1 , you must be yourself ! :D
I don't know about you aliens, but I would like to have a person who is like Angelina Joline in stunts! Who is ready for action! Who can jump higher than me but must be shorter than me. XD
hahah , thats cause youre a guy !
To sing along with me, to laugh with me, to be crazy like me, to debate with me, to swing the guitar at me when I'm being a retarded lame. Throw pillows at me at night when I stink, to push me off the bed and chase her in the house with cream. Messing up the kitchen , poke her while she asleep, and ended up in embrace. AWW , I LOVE THIS PARAGRAPH (:
Isn't it sweet to think about this, your dream girl/boy, what you expect from the person, what you want to happen, what you foresee in the relationship. Well, not all we planned run accordingly. Like a saying,'We plan it, but God decide it.' truetrue
When you really feel the break down of the relationship, don't just keep quiet, but tell the truth of what you're feeling, he/she will listen. Cos both of you wouldn't wanna lose the love. But if at times, the reason of the break up is beyond your will, it's better not to say it but hoping that he/she will understand you indirectly. hmmm
The bitter of love is what makes one be closer to another. well , wen things just go ugly and suddenly you think , why is he/she like this ?! but in the end , you learn from one another and that makes things better for the relationship . As you fall, you will make another stand, to continue what you've stop. It'll be a better trip than before, cos you learnt something and realized what you lack of. absolutely. That makes you stronger. And stronger that you feel like piggyback-ing her. I wish my girlfriend piggyback me. HAHAHA! sometimes , it makes you stronger , sometimes , it makes you weaker . to think back , its both . you cry wen you get hurt , den there will be sorrys here and there and tadaaaaaaa , okay already and the next time , its the same , its like a cycle you have to get use to . but well , without all this you wont learn , thats why i dont believe it wen couples say they dont fight. haha ! but wen you fight too much , its "unhealthy" for the relationship..
But most importantly, when you confess love, you must really be sincere of what you are confessing, it is not for the beauty but for the companion being with her/him, the way he/she treated you. The way he/she is being true to you. The sincerity he shows visibly and not. The way he is, the imperfection of his that makes him perfect in your eyes. Kak asmah and abang fendy once put this caption "It's his/her imperfections that makes him/her perfect for me." for their friendster shoutout . cute right ? its vice versa . haha .The care he shows to you. And the knowledge that he possessed that can lead you for a better live.
A love you can bring along even at your golden age, is what I call an 'Undying love'. look at your parents ! (:
PS: Well, this will be like in 10years time? Perhaps
hahaha . okay , the orange is what this guy said , the white is what this guy said and i totally believe it and the red are my views (: they're just my views , i never said im right ...
okay ahh . goodnight .
With Love ♥ 12:08 AM
